Your Help Is Not Wanted! Part 1

So many people ask  for help in different areas of their lives but fail to understand the true meaning of help.

Dictionary.com's definition of the word "help" is.... 

to save; rescue; to make easier or less difficult; contribute to.

I really like the 'contribute to' definition. Despite what most believe, helping is really supposed to "contribute to" a better result or finished product (or person). However some like their hands held and a lot of "it's ok's" to give them a temporary relief from the problems that lie within. This will not get them where they need and want to be. 

They don't really want your help at all. They just want an emotional baby sitter that will not hold them accountable to pursuing the greatness within. 

The end result, turns out to not be a good result at all, but still an incomplete person that does not want to deal with self.

Let's not handicap our fellow mates (yes I just went Australian) but let us be more proactive with the way we "help" others and ourselves.